{"id":571,"date":"2023-05-07T11:50:21","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2023\/05\/07\/vidbrogd-mattleysis\/"},"modified":"2023-05-07T11:50:21","modified_gmt":"2023-05-07T11:50:21","slug":"vidbrogd-mattleysis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2023\/05\/07\/vidbrogd-mattleysis\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 m\u00e1ttleysis"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00dea\u00f0 er athyglisvert a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hvernig margir menn taka gagnr\u00fdni og annars konar m\u00f3tl\u00e6ti sem beint er a\u00f0 \u00feeim. \u00deetta er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 misjafnt eins og gengur. Margir taka einfaldlega til m\u00e1ls og andm\u00e6la \u00fev\u00ed sem um r\u00e6\u00f0ir. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vera hin e\u00f0lilegu vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0. Sl\u00edk andm\u00e6li duga \u00fe\u00f3 skammt nema fyrir \u00feeim s\u00e9u f\u00e6r\u00f0 fram gild r\u00f6k sem s\u00fdna fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdnin eigi s\u00e9r ekki markt\u00e6kar forsendur. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

A\u00f0rir taka m\u00f3tl\u00e6tinu illa og leggja \u00fe\u00e1 jafnvel f\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feann sem valdi\u00f0 hefur \u00feessum b\u00fasifjum. \u00deetta eru \u00fe\u00e1 helst \u00feeir sem vita ekki hvernig svara skuli. \u00cd \u00feessum tilvikum \u00e1 gagnr\u00fdnin oft meiri r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r en ella \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e1 sem fyrir ver\u00f0ur finnur ekki framb\u00e6rileg r\u00f6k gegn henni. Miklu betra v\u00e6ri fyrir \u00feessa \u00feolendur gagnr\u00fdninnar a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafa fari\u00f0 villur vegar og jafnvel bi\u00f0ja afs\u00f6kunar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed framfer\u00f0i s\u00ednu ef tilefni er til. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er hins vegar frekar f\u00e1t\u00edtt a\u00f0 menn breg\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feessum s\u00ed\u00f0arnefnda h\u00e6tti. \u00deeim finnst \u00feeir ver\u00f0a meiri menn me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00f3tm\u00e6la \u00fev\u00ed sem sagt hefur veri\u00f0 um h\u00e1ttsemi \u00feeirra \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 geta r\u00f6kstutt m\u00f3tm\u00e6li s\u00edn. A\u00f0rir kj\u00f3sa hins vegar bara a\u00f0 \u00feegja \u00feunnu hlj\u00f3\u00f0i og vilja \u00fe\u00e1 ekkert af gagnr\u00fdnandanum vita. \u00deeir einfaldlega h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 hann og \u00fea\u00f0 eins \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi \u00e1 fyrri t\u00ed\u00f0 veri\u00f0 \u00ed vinskap vi\u00f0 manninn og jafnvel \u00e1tt honum skuld a\u00f0 gjalda.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00deetta eru oftast aumkunarver\u00f0 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 og m\u00e1ttlaus. Menn eiga a\u00f0 geta tala\u00f0 saman \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 beri \u00e1 milli. \u00deeir eiga \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 geta r\u00e6tt \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1lefni sem veldur og leita sameiginlega a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hvar hundurinn liggur grafinn. \u00dea\u00f0 er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 eitt af einkennum hins l\u00fd\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0islega samf\u00e9lags a\u00f0 brug\u00f0ist s\u00e9 vi\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdni \u00e1 \u00feennan s\u00ed\u00f0astnefnda h\u00e1tt og l\u00f6gvari\u00f0 tj\u00e1ningarfrelsi n\u00fdtt til a\u00f0 skiptast \u00e1 sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0um s\u00ednum og \u00feess sem gagnr\u00fdnt hefur. Stundum getur \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta \u00e1 opinberum vettvangi en \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0rum tilvikum me\u00f0 einkasamtali vi\u00f0 hinn a\u00f0ilann.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kannski er algengast a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem hefur fengi\u00f0 \u00e1 sig athugassemdir vi\u00f0 framfer\u00f0i s\u00ednu \u00ed tilteknu m\u00e1li breg\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 rei\u00f0i og afneitun. Flestir eru uppn\u00e6mir fyrir sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r og skilja ekki a\u00f0 \u00feeir \u00fej\u00f3na sj\u00e1lfsvir\u00f0ingu sinni best me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka r\u00e9ttm\u00e6tri gagnr\u00fdni vel og l\u00e6ra af henni. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00deessi or\u00f0 eru skrifu\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 hvetja menn til a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00feetta og b\u00e6ta r\u00e1\u00f0 sitt ef \u00fe\u00f6rf krefur.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00f3n Steinar Gunnlaugsson l\u00f6gma\u00f0ur<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00dea\u00f0 er athyglisvert a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hvernig margir menn taka gagnr\u00fdni og annars konar m\u00f3tl\u00e6ti sem beint er a\u00f0 \u00feeim. \u00deetta er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 misjafnt eins og gengur. Margir taka einfaldlega til m\u00e1ls og andm\u00e6la \u00fev\u00ed sem um r\u00e6\u00f0ir. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vera hin e\u00f0lilegu vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0. Sl\u00edk andm\u00e6li duga \u00fe\u00f3 skammt nema fyrir \u00feeim s\u00e9u f\u00e6r\u00f0 fram […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=571"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/571\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}