{"id":518,"date":"2022-03-14T05:00:11","date_gmt":"2022-03-14T05:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2022\/03\/14\/vondum-okkur\/"},"modified":"2022-03-14T05:00:11","modified_gmt":"2022-03-14T05:00:11","slug":"vondum-okkur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2022\/03\/14\/vondum-okkur\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00f6ndum okkur"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00d6ll erum vi\u00f0 mi\u00f0punktar \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi. \u00deegar vi\u00f0 horfum yfir mikinn mannfj\u00f6lda sem kannski hefur safnast saman til a\u00f0 fagna atbur\u00f0i, nj\u00f3ta flutnings \u00e1 listaverki e\u00f0a hlusta \u00e1 r\u00e6\u00f0u, \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugsa til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00ed hverjum einstaklingi \u00ed fj\u00f6ldanum er mi\u00f0punktur, sem s\u00e1 hinn sami mi\u00f0ar alla s\u00edna upplifun vi\u00f0. Okkur er kennt a\u00f0 vanda h\u00e1ttsemi okkar og gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir, \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um a\u00f0 bera sj\u00e1lf \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 eigin gj\u00f6r\u00f0um. \u00deetta er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 skynsamlegt og r\u00e9tt en umhyggja okkar fyrir okkur sj\u00e1lfum gengur oftast miklu lengra en \u00feetta. Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum nefnilega tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ta eftir\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 gerum, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 ekki hef\u00f0um \u00e1tt a\u00f0 gera; vi\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tum jafnvel gl\u00e6pi sem vi\u00f0 kunnum a\u00f0 hafa frami\u00f0.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00deegar efri \u00e1rin ganga \u00ed gar\u00f0 \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 horfa yfir farinn veg og reyna a\u00f0 leggja mat \u00e1 l\u00edf okkar og gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir gegnum t\u00ed\u00f0ina. Ekki vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00e1um einhverju um \u00fe\u00e6r breytt, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 oftast or\u00f0i\u00f0 of seint. Vi\u00f0 kunnum samt \u00ed einhverjum tilvikum a\u00f0 eiga \u00feess kost a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir okkar. \u00de\u00e1 \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 j\u00e1ta s\u00f6k okkar fyrir okkur sj\u00e1lfum og s\u00ed\u00f0an a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja \u00fe\u00e1 afs\u00f6kunar sem vi\u00f0 kunnum a\u00f0 hafa broti\u00f0 gegn s\u00e9 \u00feess kostur.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 br\u00fdna fyrir \u00feeim sem yngri eru, hversu mikilv\u00e6gt \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00ed l\u00edfinu a\u00f0 vanda sig, s\u00fdna \u00f6\u00f0ru f\u00f3lki skilning og tillitssemi og taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 eigin gj\u00f6r\u00f0um. Stundum kunnum vi\u00f0 jafnvel sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 sakna \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa ekki veri\u00f0 \u00ed stakk b\u00fain \u00e1 yngri \u00e1rum a\u00f0 skynja a\u00f0 breytni okkar hefur \u00e1hrif \u00e1 a\u00f0ra og \u00fe\u00e1 ekki s\u00edst s\u00fa breytni sem kann a\u00f0 teljast til misgj\u00f6r\u00f0a e\u00f0a rangrar t\u00falkunar \u00e1 atvikum \u00ed l\u00edfi okkar sj\u00e1lfra. Hversu vel \u00feekkjum vi\u00f0 ekki fj\u00f6lda manna sem aldrei endurmeta nokkurn hlut og jafnvel forher\u00f0ast \u00ed r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tingum \u00e1 breytni sem bers\u00fdnilega braut r\u00e9tt \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum? Ef okkur tekst a\u00f0 opna augu \u00feeirra sem yngri eru fyrir ver\u00f0m\u00e6tum l\u00edfsins, sem h\u00e9r eru nefnd, er til nokkurs unni\u00f0. \u00c9g hef stundum reynt a\u00f0 br\u00fdna fyrir sj\u00e1lfum m\u00e9r a\u00f0 markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki a\u00f0 f\u00e1 h\u00farrahr\u00f3p fr\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur kann a\u00f0 hafa gert vel, heldur miklu heldur a\u00f0 vera sj\u00e1lfur s\u00e1ttur og geta sofna\u00f0 v\u00e6rt a\u00f0 kv\u00f6ldi, \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 enginn annar viti um \u00fe\u00e1 breytni sem um r\u00e6\u00f0ir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ef vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um vitni a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 annar ma\u00f0ur fremji misgj\u00f6r\u00f0ir sem anna\u00f0 hvort bitna \u00e1 honum sj\u00e1lfum e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara varlega gagnvart \u00feeim sem \u00ed hlut \u00e1. \u00dea\u00f0 dugir sjaldnast a\u00f0 halda yfir honum tilfinninga\u00ferungnar r\u00e6\u00f0ur um h\u00e1ttsemina og hvar honum hafi or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1. Sl\u00edkt vekur oft a\u00f0eins upp andsv\u00f6r vi\u00f0komandi manns og framkallar r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tingar fr\u00e1 honum \u00e1 misgj\u00f6r\u00f0unum. Miklu \u00e1rangursr\u00edkara er a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 hann me\u00f0 eigin breytni og afst\u00f6\u00f0u og \u00fe\u00e1 jafnvel me\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00fdna honum ford\u00e6mi sem hann \u00e6tti a\u00f0 skilja. Mikilv\u00e6gast er fyrir okkur a\u00f0 skynja a\u00f0 \u00e1hrifasv\u00e6\u00f0i okkar er umfram allt hi\u00f0 innra me\u00f0 okkur sj\u00e1lfum. \u00dear \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 fyrst og fremst a\u00f0 vanda okkur og taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er oft svo \u00f3sk\u00f6p l\u00edti\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 getum stj\u00f3rna\u00f0 hj\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum, anna\u00f0 en \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa \u00f3bein \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00fdna gott ford\u00e6mi me\u00f0 okkar eigin heg\u00f0un.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00f3n Steinar Gunnlaugsson l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00d6ll erum vi\u00f0 mi\u00f0punktar \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi. \u00deegar vi\u00f0 horfum yfir mikinn mannfj\u00f6lda sem kannski hefur safnast saman til a\u00f0 fagna atbur\u00f0i, nj\u00f3ta flutnings \u00e1 listaverki e\u00f0a hlusta \u00e1 r\u00e6\u00f0u, \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugsa til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00ed hverjum einstaklingi \u00ed fj\u00f6ldanum er mi\u00f0punktur, sem s\u00e1 hinn sami mi\u00f0ar alla s\u00edna upplifun vi\u00f0. Okkur er […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/518","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=518"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/518\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=518"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=518"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=518"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}