{"id":488,"date":"2023-09-03T08:20:54","date_gmt":"2023-09-03T08:20:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2023\/09\/03\/brugdist-vid-med-thogninni\/"},"modified":"2023-09-03T08:20:54","modified_gmt":"2023-09-03T08:20:54","slug":"brugdist-vid-med-thogninni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/2023\/09\/03\/brugdist-vid-med-thogninni\/","title":{"rendered":"Brug\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f6gninni"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9g hef um langt \u00e1rabil skrifa\u00f0 greinar um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1l og birt \u00e1 opinberum vettvangi. \u00dear hef \u00e9g oftast birt sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 sem byggjast \u00e1 l\u00edfssko\u00f0un minni. H\u00fan felst ekki s\u00edst \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 allir eigi a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta r\u00edkulegs frelsis \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi en bera fulla \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00feeir segja og gera.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u00f0horf m\u00edn hafa ekki alltaf noti\u00f0 vins\u00e6lda hj\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum. Til d\u00e6mis skrifa\u00f0i \u00e9g greinar um a\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttindareglan um sakleysi uns sekt sannast \u00e6tti vi\u00f0 \u00ed refsim\u00e1lum vegna \u00e1sakana um kynfer\u00f0isbrot. \u00de\u00e1 var\u00f0 \u00e9g fyrir heiftarlegum \u00e1r\u00e1sum \u00e1 pers\u00f3nu m\u00edna og var jafnvel saka\u00f0ur um a\u00f0 taka m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 brotamanna gegn r\u00e9ttv\u00edsinni. \u00deetta var au\u00f0vita\u00f0 alger fjarst\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g er og hef alltaf veri\u00f0 andv\u00edgur ofbeldisbrotum og \u00fe\u00e1 ekki s\u00edst \u00ed \u00feeim m\u00e1laflokki sem h\u00e9r er nefndur. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er b\u00e6\u00f0i undarlegt og \u00e1m\u00e6lisvert a\u00f0 geta ekki teki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0um um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0m\u00e1l \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feau s\u00e9u pers\u00f3nuger\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 veitast a\u00f0 m\u00e1lshefjanda pers\u00f3nulega. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Svo hef \u00e9g l\u00edka upplifa\u00f0 and\u00fa\u00f0 annarra \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfum m\u00e9r fyrir afst\u00f6\u00f0u m\u00edna til fleiri m\u00e1la. \u00de\u00e1 hafa jafnvel gamlir vinir m\u00ednir sn\u00fai\u00f0 vi\u00f0 m\u00e9r baki og h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 mig \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir vi\u00f0leitni m\u00edna til a\u00f0 halda g\u00f3\u00f0u sambandi vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sem hafa haft a\u00f0rar sko\u00f0anir en \u00e9g \u00e1 vi\u00f0komandi m\u00e1lefni. \u00cd sl\u00edkum tilvikum hef \u00e9g sjaldnast noti\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 heyra hva\u00f0 hafi efnislega valdi\u00f0 \u00feessari and\u00fa\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 hafa \u00feeir einatt ekki geta\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef for\u00f0ast a\u00f0 byggja sko\u00f0anir m\u00ednar \u00e1 \u00fej\u00f3nkun vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra hvort sem er einstaklinga e\u00f0a h\u00f3pa. \u00deetta vir\u00f0ast \u00feeir ekki \u00feola sem binda tr\u00fass sitt vi\u00f0 hagsmuni sem \u00feeir vilja sty\u00f0ja, \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 skynsamlegar r\u00f6ksemdir m\u00e6li ekki me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00de\u00e1 vir\u00f0ast oft ekki vera \u00f6nnur \u00farr\u00e6\u00f0i en a\u00f0 veitast a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0umanni me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala ekki til hans e\u00f0a vi\u00f0 hann.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9g man til d\u00e6mis vel eftir \u00fatkomu b\u00f3kar minnar \u201eDeilt \u00e1 d\u00f3marana\u201c, \u00e1 \u00e1rinu 1987. H\u00fan vakti fyrst \u00ed sta\u00f0 ekki nokkra athygli \u00e1 opinberum vettvangi, og var l\u00edti\u00f0 sem ekkert um hana tala\u00f0 e\u00f0a skrifa\u00f0, \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi fjalla\u00f0 um mj\u00f6g alvarleg \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1l. \u00dea\u00f0 breyttist reyndar s\u00ed\u00f0ar og er \u00e9g farinn a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi haft raunveruleg \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00feau m\u00e1lefni sem fjalla\u00f0 var um. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00e9r finnst vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00feagnarinnar heldur sm\u00e1narleg. Menn eiga miklu fremur a\u00f0 fagna \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed or\u00f0i ef fram koma sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1l sem \u00feeir vilja ekki samsinna. Sl\u00edkt gefur \u00feeim tilefni til a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 \u00feannig a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir heyri. \u00c9g hef oft hvatt menn til a\u00f0 andm\u00e6la m\u00e9r ef \u00feeir telja efni standa til og oft l\u00fdst \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 tilb\u00fainn a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00feeim \u00e1 fundum til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin, en \u00fe\u00e1 n\u00e6r alltaf \u00e1n \u00e1rangurs. \u00c9g g\u00e6ti nefnt nokkur d\u00e6mi um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0\u00feekkta menn sem svona hafa brug\u00f0ist vi\u00f0.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9g l\u00e6t \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed eftir m\u00e9r, kominn \u00e1 efri \u00e1rin, a\u00f0 hvetja menn til a\u00f0 hika ekki vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka til m\u00e1ls til and\u00f3fs vi\u00f0 sko\u00f0unum sem \u00feeir eru andv\u00edgir en halda samt \u00ed fri\u00f0 og jafnvel vin\u00e1ttu vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sem hafa birt a\u00f0ra afst\u00f6\u00f0u en \u00feeir hafa til \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1lanna.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00f3n Steinar Gunnlaugsson er l\u00f6gma\u00f0ur sem lagt hefur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed vana sinn a\u00f0 skrafa um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1l.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c9g hef um langt \u00e1rabil skrifa\u00f0 greinar um \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1l og birt \u00e1 opinberum vettvangi. \u00dear hef \u00e9g oftast birt sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 sem byggjast \u00e1 l\u00edfssko\u00f0un minni. H\u00fan felst ekki s\u00edst \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 allir eigi a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta r\u00edkulegs frelsis \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi en bera fulla \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00feeir segja og gera. Vi\u00f0horf m\u00edn hafa […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=488"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/488\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonsteinar.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}